Rules of Engagement

The rules being engaged may get complicated or they may smooth out certain aspects of your relationship. It calls for a different approach once the couple is in relationship and when they get engaged. It is a big change from your daily followed routine and one may find it difficult to adjust, at least for the initial few days or may be months even.


Once the two are engaged, it is important to take the whole process with ease and at a slow pace. Certainly, after being engaged, the future prospects become more pertinent but they are not to be talked about like daily matters. But they should be left aside for some special times.

Going the distance is hard. If you are one of those who do not get intimate too often just because you are waiting for the right time, then it is suggested to wait a little more and wait for the correct timing of your move. Getting engaged and wearing the ring does not give you the warrant to make out with your beloved.


It is imperative to remember those who were with you through thick and thin. If you have gotten engaged, it does not mean you break off from the rest of the world and totally inclined towards your beloved. It shall be unfair and indigestible by your folks as well and you do not want to break up with them before you have got married or even after that for it is said that in a person’s life, there has to be friends that he can rely on throughout his life.

Engagement makes it official that you can meet up your fiancée at any time. But let’s take a turn and let the relationship be something that is different and unique in perspective. Maintaining a distance will impact the fabric of the relationship positively and both would want more from each other after the marriage. Keeping it unique and not just a regular thing will help you strengthen your bond with your better half.


At the same time, it must be said that staying at a distance from each other does not mean that interaction is completely finished. It must be said that meeting after certain days will make you realize how much you adore her and want her. In this way, certain stupidities are ignored and dampened by the romantic bond shared by the two.

Once engaged, its important being positive about each other. Analyzing each other and comparisons are just not going to work. Help yourself as well as your relationship in a way that you can take it forward easily and with great satisfaction. Even if such thoughts do cross your mind, then try to ignore them and take positives.

Stop being obsessive and over ambitious. It’s time to start thinking of becoming a better half for each other. Try to bring more balance between your professional life and your personal life. It shall help nurture caring qualities for each other.

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